Monday, June 17, 2013

Lessons from Dad

My dad has taught me so much in my life. I will express here a few of the most important things...and a few trivial ones.

Never give up. After being told he may never walk again, I'm glad he never gave up and can live to run with my children.

Be helpful. Just pray you're helpful when you aren't already late. That upsets the punctual people in the family.

Your wife is your queen, your daughter is your princess. Naturally the princess doesn't get away with murder because the queen is there. But being the queen to my own husband is pretty awesome. I love that my dad taught me how a woman should be treated.

Don't be too proud. He played tea parties, pretty pretty princess, and let me paint his nails. Nuff said.

Be nice to strangers, but shoot to kill intruders. Texans don't risk the lives of their loved ones to avoid a lawsuit from the robber's family.

Gunpowder is fun on holidays involving fireworks.

How to love my children with patience and kindness.

But most of all I learned gospel truths. Like how to love myself because I am a child of God. What makes me special simply being human? Nothing. I am special because I was made in the image of God. Even if some people call my family inactive, we are far from hopeless. Immovable testimonies abound. I remember how touched I always was when my dad would bear his testimony and I know Heavenly Father remembers them and knows their hearts.

Wishing everyone a lovely father's day.

- Heather Rand

Friday, June 7, 2013

Value

While watching hoarders my beliefs were reinforced. These people were never taught how to value themselves, more importantly why they should. Families are vital. If parents abuse their children, everything for the rest of that child's life is affected. Self worth. Consequences. Knowledge. Love. Integrity.

So I just wanted to tell someone, anyone, you are important. You are valuable. You are worth so much to the most important being in existence. Why? Because God made you, he knows your strengths, your weaknesses, your fears, your potential. Even through all your imperfections. You are so loved and so valuable.

If there is one thing I will make certain I give to my daughter, it will be the gift of knowledge that she has a heavenly father who loves us and we love him. She is a daughter of God, and she will always be cherished.